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Sunday, July 02, 2006
A:Umm.... are u single ? B:no ! ... aw i wish i could say thisA:ah cool may i date u ?B:u're insane we've just met ! but..well i dont mind keke :)Hmm ..oops i hope its not misleading love isnt that simple anyway let me go abit more in-depthIF u're normal , love usually belongs to one of these 3 stage :1-Lust, or erotic passion
2-Attraction, or romantic passion
3-Attachment, or commitment1 . Lust ... just after puberty, estrogen and testosterone become active in our bodies for the first time and create the desire to experience "love" aka i want s-e-xSexologist John Money draws the line between love and lust in this way: "Love exists above the belt, lust below. Love is lyrical. Lust is lewd." Do u agree ? its all up to ya2.Attraction .. may or may not come frm lust n when the relationship progress it will leads to this stage when comes into play, we often lose our ability to think rationally aka love is blindIn this stage, couples spend many hours getting to know each other. If this attraction remains strong and is felt by both of them, then they usually enter the third stage: attachment3.Attachment . yep u beat the boss this de final stage , u've pass the fantasy love n enter a true love.This stage of love has to be strong enough to withstand many problems and distractions. if Nothing goes wrong i do hope to see urs children soon :PLast interesting fact u might wanna know :Professor Arthur Aron, of the State University of New York at Stonybrook, has studied what happens when people fall in love and has found that simply staring into each other's eyes has tremendous impact.
In an experiment he conducted, Professor Aron put strangers of the opposite sex together for 90 minutes and had them discuss intimate details about themselves. He then had them stare into each other's eyes for four minutes without talking. The results? Many of the subjects felt a deep attraction for their partner after the experiment, and two even ended up getting married six months later. Pretty true IMO , even toward someone wasnt pretty im still able to 'feel' something *cough* not hinting anything , just wanna tell u how effective it could be hee go do it on girls u like ! ha ha haTalk about guinea pig .... anyway thats bout all i found this somewhere n summerize abit :P
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